The Curse of Eve

The first woman on this Earth had it all, a banging body I bet, a banging kingdom, and a banging husband, but she put it all on the line for a popped piece of fruit the baldheaded serpent told her she could have.

I could easily blame her for the menstrual cramps I’m suffering from RIGHT NOW. The labor pains that I will have to endure later on down the road IF I decide to have kids. I could blame my struggles with men on that woman, EVE. But I won’t, because who hasn’t blamed her already? Her faults are no longer her faults, they’re now our faults ladies, so we just have to shut up and DEAL with it. Sorry.

All those faults are surface faults anyway. But there’s some very SERIOUS underlying effects of the CURSE OF EVE. These effects aren’t readily noticed but surprisingly enough, there are people making money off of them! Once I became aware of it, I was appalled!

In the Garden of Eden, if you can recall, Eve's lovely self was approached by a serpent who made her second guess herself, her husband, and most importantly God. After she made that costly decision to accept that SECOND GUESS, she thus kicked off an effect that men are now taking advantage of TODAY!

What is it Tanzy? The femalien breed was made NAÏVE!

You see God didn't make woman NAÏVE. But after she made that mistake, her original makeup was compromised. Eve ate from the tree of knowledge so the more she knew the more she DIDN'T KNOW. You feel me? And from generation on to generation, that effect became more and more PRONOUNCED!

Here we are, in the year of 2014. Information is FREE knowledge is abundant but yet I had a brother message me on my Fanpage, "Tanzy there's so many motivational books out here telling a woman how she should act and how she can keep a man as if she's dumb or something." 

Hmmmm. Are women dumb? NO! We're very smart, we're just naive as hell!!! Naive because of Eve.  (Hey that rhymes ha!) But you see that right? NY-EVE? 

A certain man has sold us on acting like a lady and THINKING like a man and self proclaim doctors and motivational speakers are empowering women to MAJOR IN THE MINORS! No disrespect to none of these peoples' ministries but it's time to pop that weasel!!! 

Why? Because their making money off of women's insecurities and misunderstanding of themselves. You see an empowered woman doesn't feel she needs to change. She has a false since of security with this newly attained "knowledge" she's acquired. But let her stance be CHALLENGED she will bite back. She prefers to be babied and coddled. 

But there's another woman out there. She's been REWIRED. All those books and messages she's read she has SCRAPPED and started a new journey to seek out her true self. She relates this truth to the opposite sex and sees them as her equal. She would rather be hurt by the truth than to be misled by a lie or a false positive. 

Women don't need to be EMPOWERED! We HAVE POWER! We never lost our power! We don't need anymore KNOWLEDGE! We need WISDOM. Wisdom is KNOWLEDGE applied!!! We need to experience YIELDING to our inner truths as opposed to being guided somewhere we don't need to BE! 

You don't believe me when I say a woman doesn't need to be REWIRED? Explain to me how when I'm exposing bad habits of a woman to a group of women and get the response of CHURCH CRICKETS? Or even worse I get ATTACKED and I'M A WOMAN!

It's hard talking to women who have been FALSELY EMPOWERED! They've spent years conditioning themselves to believe that they are FINE! That they should be accepted as they are because they've been mistreated when actually they've allowed THEMSELVES to be MISTREATED! 

But I'm not going to even go there. I don't want to hit nobody upside the head with this revelation. I just want to blow the whistle and say WAAAAAAKKEE. UUUUPPP!!! 

I mentioned REWIRING. How does a woman rewire herself? First she must WANT TO. Second, she needs to stop reading and listening to stuff tell her how to be a WOMAN. If you can't fit little girl panties anymore YOU DON'T NEED to be told how to be a WOMAN. Third, it's time to start reading the Bible. The Bible is the BEST rewiring tool out here. 

Last, be open to hear something different from what you're used to. Be open to those paradigm shifts or AHA MOMENTS. Don't cower away in self doubt, pity, or shame when your womanhood is challenged. Allow these moments to make you THINK! Nothing is more attractive than a WOMAN who knows how to THINK FOR HERSELF but even more, a woman who knows how to THINK in silence. 

Accept that you are not always going to get your way because you are a woman. Stop being selfish when it comes to the creatures of the opposite sex aka MEN lol. Hear what they have to say for a change. 

What I'm suggesting is on some collegiate level thinking. Meaning those elementary school practices MUST BE SCRAPED. You don't have to give up who you are but you WILL have to sit down in a few seats and experience a broader view of yourself as a woman. It's time to go back to EDEN and be transformed into the women God initially made us to be. That's it and that's all. I love you my SistaQueens! 

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