Tanzy Alexis Said It!

The first woman on this Earth had it all, a banging body I bet, a banging kingdom, and a banging husband, but she put it all on the line for a popped piece of fruit the baldheaded serpent told her she could have. I could easily blame her for the menstrual cramps I’m suffering from RIGHT NOW. The labor pains that I will have to endure later on down the road IF I decide to have kids. I could blame my struggles with men on that woman, EVE. But I won’t, because who hasn’t blamed her already? Her faults are no longer her faults, they’re now our faults ladies, so we just have to shut up and DEAL with it. Sorry. All those faults are surface faults anyway. But there’s some very SERIOUS underlying effects of the CURSE OF EVE. These effects aren’t readily noticed but surprisingly enough, there are people making money off of them! Once I became aware of it, I was appalled! In the Garden of Eden, if you can recall, Eve's lovely self was approached by a serpent who made her ...

Yo, have you ever been so frustrated with your life that you just wanted to say, "F&ck it, I quit!" Has your walk with God made you question Him like, "Why me, God?" This past Friday, I went there. First of all, Friday came with its boxing gloves and ready for some mad bull jive! You feel me? And yes I did pray that morning. I prayed for clarity, revelation, and instruction. So I get halfway through a mentally exhausting work day, and I get kicked in the gut! Reeling in pain, before I could catch my breath I get punched in the chest. Let's just say I was done for the rest of day.  After work I took myself on a date. Life just seemed to be easier for those few hours. But those few hours left me as fast as they'd come and as I walked to my castle, reality sank in. The pain from earlier came back. I had to come to grips with the fact that I'd been jumped on in the spirit.  I sat in bed with my back against...

  We're all balls of energy. We were created in the image of God so we possess an unimaginable power. A lot of which we don’t even know we have.  When God created man he gave man enough power to govern and fight for his kingdom. He gave woman power to be the bearer of nations.  That means that when man and woman become ONE their powers together are EXPLOSIVE!  Anyway, life happened when Adam and Eve succumbed to temptation. And life throws punches honey, which means we have to constantly be recharged of our powers. With that being said God originally created sex for procreation and not for pleasure. But everything God created He saw that it was good thus meaning sex is supposed to feel and be good too. Look at this, when man and woman become one this is the perfect opportunity for them to recharge their powers!  If this union however, is NOT ordained, you have two people bumping and grinding and losing unnecessary POWER making them pretty much WORTH...

Happy 2014 beautiful people! Is the new year treating you well so far? What have you been doing DIFFERENT to make this year THE YEAR OF GREATNESS? If you haven’t figured it out yet, that’s ok. It’s never too late to START figuring things out and putting stuff into motion! Please don’t wait until the END of the year though! Ok? So until you get it together, have a seat with me real quick, while we delve into the first post of the NEW YEAR together. We’re already two weeks into this thang shawty and SheMEHer done received some healthy servings of REVELATIONS from the DIVINE SOURCE! Yes honey! And I’m so DEEP in, that I have long since passed the point of NO RETURN. What the hell are you talking about Tanzy? Look, a snorkeler needs gear to snorkel. A firefighter needs gear to fight fires and you my friend need gear TO GO HIGHER. Higher where? HIGHER IN GOD! Not only will you need to gurd up your loins and put on the whole armor of God, you’re going to need all five of your sens...

  Ecclesiastes 7:8 "Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof: and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit. " You know, I sat back and allowed God to show me a recap of my life this year and boy did I feel a bunch of goosebumps rise from my SHANDO! This was a very painful year for me, growth wise. No I didn't lose a loved one, THANK THE LORD, but the many times I lay awake at night crying myself into a coma, I'm pretty sure my neighbors would have thought I lost MY WHOLE FAMILY. Chile, I had to FIGHT EVERYDAY! No rest!  From the outside it would look like I had a pretty swell year with the publishing of my first novel TEARS OF KINGS and the mini praise breaks in between. But I kind of compared that to when Rocky ran up all those stairs during his training to be a boxer. With the epic theme song of that scene playing in the background, Rocky made it up those stairs.  Well, that's what all those things felt like. But...

One of my favorite Disney shows as a teenager was That’s So Raven . Ha! Don’t try to act like you didn’t like that show either! It was fun and funny, especially because Raven played by Raven Simone from the Cosby Show , would always find herself in crazy situations. This show was also different because Raven had the ability to see glimpses of the future. I remember wishing I had that ability. I was 14 at the time and all I really wanted to know was, “What will my life look like in the future?” “Will I look better, feel better, and BE BETTER off than I am now/” These were questions I often wondered if anybody else asked themselves at my age. So yeah, on Raven’s show, right before Raven would do something major she would be provoked to stop what she was doing and BAM there was the image of her doing something in the future. Most of the time these visions were just a few seconds long and there was no other explanation or extra detail given. Raven had to figure out HOW to make that ...

  Man, can you believe it's DECEMBER ALREADY? Where has the year gone? Smh So did you guys enjoy Thanksgiving? How much did you eat? Lol. I enjoyed mines. Even though I haven't really been in the holiday spirits, I forced myself to at least be thankful for my family and my life period. So yeah, this past weekend, I had the pleasure of hanging out with a friend to celebrate his birthday. I was actually super eager to have a reason to get out my castle on a Friday night. We went to a few spots, two of which were clubs. Let me tell you, I haven't been to a club in YEARS so I had to adjust my mindset for the environment.  The music was LIVE and the people were vibing. It was cool minus the ass to shoulders crampness, HA! I was digging the scene with a gangsta lean Woop woop lol. Anywho, I allowed myself to be separated from the people I came with to mingle with people I didn't know from Eve or Adam. Chile BOOM!  In one of the places, I kid you not, it was l...